I listened intently
as my good friend and fellow workshop facilitator spoke today. She had a lot of
valuable information to share as always, but one thing stuck with me. It was
the state of disunity, individualism and selfishness in which we live. She used
Somali immigrants to South Africa as an example and told us that the reason the
Somali community is thriving here is because they work together, because of
their unity. For example she said, when one person or family needs a house then
the whole community puts together and helps that person to buy a house and they
do such things for each other all the time.
It’s funny, last
night my family and I were having a similar conversation. My mother told us
about this group of brothers who had a successful business because they worked
so well together, and we could identify many more similar situations. Unity is
strength- This is an old clichéd phrase, but some things can never be
emphasized too much!
I feel saddened that
this unity isn’t the norm. I look around and see families struggling because
they cannot afford to take out a bank load and get a house (as is the norm for
most people). Then they have to spend preposterous amounts of rent money, and
sometimes the landlords don’t even need the money they are getting. Then there
are those who can’t even afford to make that rent, and they get kicked out with
nowhere to go or get taken to court because they are in breach of payment. The
house thing is just one example, I can find so many, and I’m sure you can too.
I really, really
hate this system of individualism that’s so prominent today. It’s a selfish
system and it makes people easily ignore the difficulties of others. Imagine
what we could achieve if we all worked together. Can you just imagine how much
better our societies and or entire world would be if people stopped only
focusing on themselves and their immediate families and started worrying about
everyone.
And once again we
see the beautiful teachings of our Beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) shining
through. It is related in a hadeeth something to the effect that the true
believer should want for his brother what he wants for himself. Surely if we
all practised on this then our societies would be just like that of the Somali
immigrants I mentioned. Surely then no one would be suffering because a true
spirit of sharing would exist.
If only we could all
go back to the beautiful teachings of Islam, if only we could shift out of our
comfort zones and stop the narcissism which seems to be so in fashion these
days. If only we could get together, work hard for the good of each other and
make sure that everyone in society was taken care of. If only we stopped
thinking of ourselves, raising our own status, getting better possessions for
ourselves, if we only we understood that unity truly is strength!
May Almighty Allah
(Exalted is He) be our guide and help us to see the truth!
Very interesting and inspiring, as always, Zarina. I was talking about something similar with my mum the other day. I told her that if every single human being would give or share something with the bigger community then the world would be free of poverty and loneliness, people would be safe and secure.
ReplyDeleteMost people know these facts but they don't want to take action, they think somebody else will do it or they don't want to give up things for the sake of helping others.
Take care Zarina and may we ask God to grant us peace and show us the way to inspire others and make change happen.
Marie
ReplyDeleteAmeen to your prayers!
And I agree, most of us know this but we have made ourselves believe that its not our problem and we deserve to have a good life because we work hard for it. It's such a pity.