It’s weird; I thought he was a nice guy. He
seemed decent you know, with a wife and adult children and all that. He was at the
University for years and I always kind of saw him like part of the old
furniture. Although I have to admit that I found his lectures very tedious in
my undergraduate studies, I actually came to like him when I did my
postgraduate degrees and I saw him as someone with a lot of knowledge and
experience, someone you could learn a lot from.
Then he became my research supervisor and I
remember feeling more comfortable that he was an older guy, if only I had
known! I was actually quite shocked
yesterday, as you can imagine.
My feelings and reactions aside though, there’s
another reason why I’m mentioning this. You see, I did my Masters research on
Muslim women. And of course, given the current political climate, the issue of
‘Muslim women’ is a heated topic. At some point I even remember the same
professor saying to me that; “I wouldn’t want to be you researching this
issue”. Anyway, it turned out quite well for me, Alhamdullillah and the research
was much better than what had initially been expected (which I take no credit
for). One day though, he said to me that he gets angry when he sees Muslim
women all dressed up in black, completely covered, with their husbands walking
in front of them. His reason for getting upset was that he felt it it was
unnecessary and just like many people he believed that this stifles Muslim
women.
At the time I understood that everyone has their
own opinions when it comes to the dress of Muslim women. In fact, it would seem
that more people have an opinion on this than things they actually need to have
an opinion on. Nonetheless, I now find myself feeling quite angry, because if
this professor really cared about women’s rights or respect for women, then how
could he disrespect women by harassing them, and how could he infringe upon the
rights of women while pretending to be bothered by women who he regarded as
being oppressed?
Of course these sorts of double standards are
prevalent in society, and people simply fall on the bandwagon of believing
everything that they hear without actually understanding or a lot of the time,
without even thinking about things logically themselves. Think about it right,
if this particular professor had to speak about Muslim women for instance, then
people would automatically believe what he had to say, because obviously he had
great academic credentials. Yet, his words would’ve been false as he himself
disrespected women and violated their rights.
The thing that gets to me is that everyone has a
lot to say about Islam and how Muslim women dress, yet it is because Allah
wants to protect our modesty, chastity and honour that we are supposed to dress
this way. Allah Almighty tells us in the Glorious Quraan that the dress of
women is for protection. Despite this, people start screaming about “oppression”
and “the need for liberation” when they themselves cannot uphold respect and
honour of women. (Please note that I
am not saying that all Muslim women are respected and honoured as there are
many cases where Muslim women are oppressed, but also understand that Islam
does not oppress women, nor do the laws of Islam, people who abuse and
misunderstand the laws of Islam oppress women- And Allah Knows Best about
everything and will bring Justice in every situation).
Back to my discussion- This case is not unique; it
happens all the time. Women are preyed upon by men in power who abuse their
power to achieve their own personal needs and wants. I have to wonder though, if
the system of the so-called Western world is so perfect, then why do these
things still continue to happen, over and over again?
I also can’t help but wonder what the real reason
is for people hating the way Muslim women dress. Could it be because it goes
against male ideals of what women should look like? Could it be because it deprives
men from gazing at women? I really can’t
say, but what I can say is what I’ve mentioned before, Muslim women’s dress
should be a non-issue, because the way someone dresses does not by any means
determine their level of intelligence or their ability to contribute to society
and so on.
The most important thing in this whole case is
that women are not treated with the respect and honour that they deserve. While
the world seems to suddenly care so much about the oppression of Muslim women,
what about the oppression of all women? Why not launch huge campaigns and bring
laws into effect to put an end to this type of harassment altogether? Instead
of banning the niqab and making a big show of it, why not implement stricter
punishments for men who harass women, whether in the workplace, or educational
institution or wherever. So yes, people like this professor may lose their
jobs, but what about legal punishment? Why don’t those in power make a big show
about this type of oppression? Why do we not have stories like this as front
page news? Really if we can have stories of oppressive Muslim men who marry
women, take them to their native countries and give them a hard life on the
front page of the newspaper, then why can’t we have stories like this as big
news? The double standards in society keep surfacing, and not many people seem
to notice!
Women should be respected, honoured and protected
at all times, and within all systems. If anyone is found guilty of infringing
upon the rights of women, then it is only right that they be punished for their
actions. People should make a big noise about oppression of all sorts, not just
the sort that fits their stereotypes.
All women
should be respected, despite the way she dresses. Whether she chooses to cover
up completely or not, a woman is not what she wears, nor is she only about the
external body. It’s really sad that even though the human race claims to have
progressed, we still have these type of situations which can only make you
shake your head and wonder whether there is hope for the human race.
May Allah protect us all from all types of harm, evil and oppression, and may Allah save us from being hypocrites who display double standards.
